Let Me Just Feel Your Juices

Dating is interesting. So far, I've met some clowns and some real clowns. :)

I'm beginning to believe that the point of dating is to have sex, not to get to know a person better.

And OK, sex is one of those natural urges. It is one of those basic needs like water and food. Well, for some people it is one of those basic needs.

Any who.

I found myself in a predicament recently. I've been seeing a guy. I like him. I'm attracted to him. We have good conversations. As a matter of fact, I love his conversation. I find him interesting. Very nice guy.

With that said, a little smoochie smooch and I think I want some water. :)

I go back and forth in my mind. Should I? Shouldn't I?

What the fewey! I'm grown, so I guess there doesn't have to be a time limit on deciding to have sex. I'm clearly within the 90 days that Steve Harvey suggests in his book.

So here I go. But then there's a whisper in my ear, "Let me just feel your juices."

"What? No. You don't have a condom?"

"Yea, but let me just feel it."

"NO!"

Ahright, I'm a little turned off because ummm just in that moment I realized I didn't really know this guy. I don't know his mother's name. He doesn't know my mom's name.

We have talked about our families and our marital statuses and what we desire in a relationship. But there is a lot of stuff that he still doesn't know about me. I don't know a lot about him.

And why on the first time would he say this?

What makes my Va-jay-jay sooooo special that he wants to feel it. I know it's special. Read my blog post about my treasure box.

This small comment may be shedding more light on him as a sexual partner. Does he just feel all of the Va-jay-jays? Yuckola!

Plus, who does that? What man JUST feels it and then puts on a condom?

And shouldn't unprotected sex be part of a monogomous relationship or am I really old-fashioned in feeling that way?

Do men go to the Let Me Feel Your Juices School when they learn how to put on a condom?

Daaaag!

After all there are many, many sexually transmitted diseases and one that will put you in the grave.

And plus unprotected sex is a perk of monogomy.

It is a perk of being with just one person -- mind, body and spirit.

It is a prize of wanting to really be with a person over time.

It should be involved when two people have decided that there is something really special and not just juices.

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