Dating Ads Should Read: Big Booty Girl Wanted!

There used to be a time when ladies posed for a photo and smiled for the camera.

Well, now they face the opposite direction and look over their shoulder so that the camera can get a good shot of their derrieres.

It is something that I don't understand about women and definitely not for women 35+. But if you are young and having fun, I can see the foolishness.

It is a phenomenon and they are just responding to what has become an obsession with women's butts. You hear about a big booty girl in songs because that is all he wants for his birthday. LOLOLOL

You see massive amounts of photos of women showing their ASSets on Social Media. It almost seems odd if a woman isn't posed so that her booty isn't showing. Whatever happened to the 'lil sexy, hand-on hip shot? Just when did the turnaround booty shot photo start?

It is leading to women with not-so big booties to get padded underwear. Yes, just like a padded bra, there are padded panties for women who need a 'lil umph. They run from $25 to $100.

Some are even more desperate to have a plump backside and shelling out $6,000 for butt augmentations. This outpatient procedure comes with the highest risks of complications of any cosmetic surgery.

While mainstream media is talking about thin models and the pressure for women to be thin, I think there is a need to talk about the desire that women have for a big booty. And the desire that men have for women with big booties.

At one time, I thought -- Hmmmm, this is only a black thing, but being bootylicious is not race specific. I do think that black men lead the pack with their outspokenness on the topic.

But what is happening is an obsession with backsides. The big girls (overweight and obese) feel pretty good about turning their hinds to the camera because -- after all -- they DO have a big butt. The no-ass-at-all girls toot theirs out for effect. LOLOLO

Women (black women) go to the gym but then say, "I don't want to lose my booty."

And women do this because men often requests photos saying, "Show me what you working with, Sexy," or "Let me see that, Baby" or "Send me a pic, Cutie."

Ladies, go ahead and send a photo of you seated. LOLOLOL He will respond, "Baby, stand up. Let me see."

Their is an obsession. And when the book of relationship history is written, there is a need for a chapter titled, "I Want A Big Booty Girl, circa 2010."