I did something this past weekend that I have never done before in my life. I went out by myself.
Don't get me wrong. I will go to a movie and even to dinner by myself and to destress. In fact, I did a lot of going to dinner by myself at the end of my marriage because I needed to think and I didn't need anybody in my ear telling me nuttin.
Any who.
I had been invited to a birthday party and I have made a vow to myself to be more diligent in the promises that I make. When I got the text, I shot one right back --"I will be there!"
My friend's party was at a place that I felt comfortable, so it wasn't the neighborhood that made me uneasy, heck, queasy. It was the thought of going to a party by myself. Here I am a 38 year old woman and I have never gone out by myself. Wow!
But when I set foot out of my car, I put my game face on. Heck, nuttin to it but to do it, is the mentality I took.
And actually it was OK. When I got there I saw one of my high school classmates who I hadn't seen in a long time so we jacked our jaws most of the evening. I also knew other people at the party so I chat a tatted with them as well. Easy as 1-2-3.
But then when I told other women that I had gone out by myself, they told me they do it all the time. Well, I guess I'm a late bloomer. That shiggidy was a first for me. I was a going-out-by-myself-virgin until Friday! LOLOLOLOLOL
Most people told me they prefer to go out alone. OOOOOKKK, but not me!
Then one girl told me I should go to a strip club. I respond, "By myself, hecky naw!"
She shoots back, "No, not by yourself, but with another girlfriend."
I give her a long blank stare because I'm waiting on the 5 Ws -- who, what, when, where, and most importantly why?
"It's a great place to meet men!" she says.
Wowsa, I think. Here I am a going-out-for-the first-time by myself virgin and she is suggesting that I go to a strip club to meet men.
Ummmm, what happened to the grocery store or library or park? LOLOLOLOL
It may be a fun adventure and hopefully before I'm tooo old and fuddy duddy, I will muster up enough nerves to do it.
But is the strip club a good place to meet men?
Prison is a great place to meet men too, but I'm guessing from my limited knowledge of you personally, you're looking for a different type of man. Same with a strip club. Nothing wrong if that's what you like, but I'm guessing most men don't come out and say when they meet you that "I like to go to strip clubs".
ReplyDeleteLOLOLOL, very funny! This is not necessarily my perspective on meeting men chasj924. I'm just passing along the info...foood for thought :) But I don't have disdain for men who go to strip clubs.
ReplyDeletei think its a great idea for a woman to go to a strip club. first, u will learn a little about how to entertain ur man, two u learn a lil about what we like our women to wear. i think if its a really classy strip club it can be a nice way to get a lady in the mood :)
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