Limits In The Bedroom

I love to share conversations that I have with men in my blog soooooo here we go again.

I was talking to one of my guy friends recently and he said that once a man has had all the Pu$$# in the world with women who will do anything, it's hard to settle down with a woman who will say, "I don't do this. I don't do that."

Hmmmmm.

Essentially, he has given up on a lasting relationship because if he meets a woman who he really likes, she will have limits in the bedroom. If he finds a woman who he likes having diggity with, that's all he wants.

In fact, he said with this type of woman he does not even wanna go to breakfast the following morning with her or hang out with her occasionally. While talking, it seemed as though the thought of spending time with a woman he only wanted sex with repulsed him.

I was shocked for a minute but then I realized that being in that type of situation is a true quandary. So if he goes for the woman he likes having sex with he doesn't want to spend time with her and if he goes with the woman he likes spending time with he won't like having sex with her.

Just thinking about it made me exhausted.

I think, just for a second, you can't get everything you want. But then I back away from that thought because who wants to spend the rest of their life with a person who they don't enjoy sex with. Wow!

Then I tell him that I think just about every woman has an inner freak. It's just a matter of whether the prospective man can tap into that freak tank by saying the right words and making her feel real special.

He shoots back, "I am tooo old for that."

Clearly, he was disgusted and dismayed and has given up on finding someone he likes having sex with and actually like spending time with.

Is this problem prevalent? Do men and women find it difficult to find someone that they like having sex with and like spending time with? And during dating, should their be limits in the bedroom?