Do You Write Down Dates?

I tend to write down appointments and birthdays and things I want to make sure I remember. Actually, I don't write those dates down, I put them in my calendar on my phone.

I have not gotten to the point, however, that I have to write down dates. If someone asks me out I typically make a mental note of it.

I had a guy tell me that he put me in her planner on a particular date.

Hmmmmmmm?

I was a tad bit irritated, so I asked you really wrote that down in your planner? He responded, "Yes."

OOOOOOK. I understand if you are truly in demand and it was necessary to pencil me in but do you have to tell me!!!??

I shared this irritation with my bff and she said, "I write down stuff like that, too, D."

Hmmmmmm, OOOOOK.

I thought about it some more and came to the conclusion that some things are just better left unsaid.

If he did have to write it down, he didn't have to tell me. Period!

I was irritated, offended. I didn't feel special, and I didn't want to go on the date the more and more I thought about it.

Sooooo, would you be irritated if someone told you that they put a date with you in their planner? Do you write down your dates?