Don't Tell Me What You Think I Wanna Hear

I am a bit perturbed, angry, upset, unhappy, displeased, heck I have an upside down smile on my face when I think about how people can manipulate with words.

More than that, I believe many men go to some type of Say What You Think She Wanna Hear Workshop because it seems many are in the business of telling women what they think women want to hear.

Ummmmmm, when I think about it even more, I am perplexed. What is the purpose of telling women just any ole thing? Do women really fall for that gawbage?

I haven't been the smartest in this dating thing since getting my divorce. Yep, my name is Darlene and I haven't been the smartest but errrr uhhhh, you live, you learn. But I also haven't been the dumbest. I do recognize game and when I see it I sit on the sidelines for a while as a spectator. And then usually walk away disgusted at the performance.

Any who.

What I have discovered is that men will just jack their jacks and jibba jab soooooo much that they don't even know what they are talking about.

Boi, shut yo mouf, lyin, I have wanted to say sooooooooooooo many times.

Because I don't have children, I get guys who tell me, "You are gonna have my baby."

Aaaaaaaaaant, wrong answer. No, nope, no way! That dere young man is not what I wanna hear. LOLOLOL

Heck, I have even been told, "I love you." I mean fo real, fo real, one clown told me he loved me sooooo sooon into the dating that I really started to question his sanity.

I remember pullin back from him a bit startled and thinking, "Huh?"

I truly thought dude was on meds, psychotropic meds.

"Let's move in together."

Ummm, I do not play house.

"I am going to be your second husband."

Now, this one really makes me tighten up my shoe laces and run Forest, ruuuuuun. LOLOLOLOL

The kind of love I want has to manifest itself like little kids around adults -- seen and not heard. I am dead serious. :)

Anybody can jack their jaws but show me, show me, show me. Don't talk my dayuuuuum ears off! LOLOLOL

So why do you think men just say what they believe women wanna hear?