While reading about men’s top relationship secrets in an online article, I was shocked. Heck, I was knocked off my feet stunned when I read that the fourth top sexual fantasy by a man is having another man perform oral sex on him.
Huh! What?! Huh! Huh! What?
OK, after I got over the shock, I put on my reporter’s cap, grabbed my notebook and hit the pavement to interview people.
Well, not really. But I started a crazy search for information on sexual fantasies.
What I found is that men fantasize about being with another woman, other than the woman with which they are involved. Uh huh, yep, uh huh.
Both men and women fantasize about oral sex. OK, not shocked there.
Men fantasize about having sex with two women and the ladies fantasize about sex with two men. Not shocked by the two women and one man and eyebrow raised at two men and one woman.
Men and women fantasize about being tied up and spanked. OK.
But I kept going back to the thought of a man fantasizing about another man giving him oral sex.
Wowsa Yowsa. Is this true?
Gotta read more.
Another fantasy that I read about that really perplexed and interested me all at the same time is a woman wearing a strap on with her man. Yep, her man. Yes, her man. Yes, you read a woman wearing a strap-on with her man.
I guess the fantasy is empowering and many women want to experience the whole phenomenon of entering. Wowsa Yowsa!
With my mouth wide open and eyes bucked, I continued reading. The information said it doesn’t mean that the guy is gay. OK, OK. Wowsa Yowsa!
But how can a woman want to actually put on a strap-on and get bizzy with her guy?
OK, maybe a butt plug or something to help him experience the "milking the prostate" thingymajiggy, but a strap-on and just taking over.
The thought of it makes me shake my head, but hey, hey, hey, who am I to judge.
Women want to be taken advantage of or ravaged. Women also want to pretend to be a prostitute or stripper. Mmmmmm, sounds like fun.
Men also fantasize about anal sex. Although some women get a bit put off by the whole idea, it doesn’t suggest that the guy has any "gay tendencies."
Well ahrighty then. Well, ahrighty, ahrighty, ahrighty.
Soooooooo. Yall, probably won’t share your sexual fantasies with me, but I gotta ask. What is your No. 1 sexual fantasy? Do you think there is a problem with a woman putting on a strap-on? Are you at all troubled by the thought of your man fantasizing about receiving oral sex from another man?
Share your comments here or e-mail me at choosingmrwrong@gmail.com.
Hey did you ever find anything about why men fantasize about another man giving him oral sex. I'm like wowza yowza about that too. Matter of fact, I just heard a Martin Lawrence stand up routine (on the Jamie Foxx station on my XM radio) reference the same thing this morning. Too much of a coincidence.
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ReplyDeleteYes, Men, like women, fantasize about having SEX with other men :)
Ugh, I never have dreamed about doing two men at once, hell I can barely handle one man at once..err, I mean..I'M A VIRGIN. It doesn't surprise me about the man giving another one oral...freaks...lol
ReplyDeleteOkay, first, where did you get that data because I have never heard that about black men - not straight black men anyway. And I have never fantasized about putting on a strap on with my man -- that is O-U-T out. That is gay without a doubt I don't care what anybody says. Fantasies are necessary for relationships to thrive - that I do believe. My hubby and I live our fantasies sometimes and it really does a lot for the relationship. Relationships are hard and some times you have to spice things up. I wondering what I haven't tried lol I guess when you've done it all, it's time to die lol
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