My Ex-Boyfriend Is Gay

I was on the telephone with one of my gfs and she revealed to me that she’s gotten confirmation that one of her ex-boyfriends is gay.

I quickly turned to my journalism skills to find out more.

What?
Who?
When?
Where?
Why?

Danggone.

My mouth was wide open and my eyes stretched real big.

It didn’t seem like it hit her like a ton of bricks, but I was in shock. But how are you supposed to feel when you find out that one of your ex-boyfriends is gay?

All kind of thoughts ran through my mind. He is smart. He is fine. He dresses well. Owns his own home. Has a good family. Has a good job.

I'm not saying that homosexuals shouldn't have all that but that's what I was thinking.

One of my gfs teases me until we laugh to tears about one of my ex-boyfriends being learning disabled. One of the reasons I stopped liking him is he didn’t have any get up and go about himself. No motivation. No ambition. Nuttin.

I thought it was lazy but it wasn’t. Now since my gf has gone on to get extended education and training in special education, she says he had all the signs.

So now you tell me.

But back to my gf and her ex-boyfriend being gay.

She said, "I always thought he was either bisexual or gay because he was extremely open sexually.”

Whew!

What immediately jumps in my mind is guys' desire to have anal sex. Schucks, are bootie lovers gay? I’ve read that it doesn’t mean that, but does it?

She continues talking while my mind is jumping from one thought to the other.

"And his mother used to wonder why he wouldn’t settle down because he met a lot of good women," she said.

Dang!

I’m still trying to pick my bottom lip up off the floor.

She soon went into how she got confirmation.

"Someone saw him and said his wrist is broken," she said.

No, not broken fa real but that he uses it more in conversations and gestures.

Wow!

I believe my gf dated this guy for about a year. I remember them even going on a vacation together.

I’ve heard stories about ex gfs and even husbands coming out the closet but to have someone close to me say that it is part of her life story threw me.

After I pick my lip up off the floor, I begin wondering why he had not figured it out earlier? Why was he trying to be something that he wasn’t? Why was he sleeping with women and really liked men? What are the signs? What are the signs? What are the signs?

The last thing I wanna do is date a guy who really likes men.

Yikes!

Have you ever dated someone and you thought he or she was gay or lesbian? Why did you think that? Do you have a good Gay-Dar? What is a telltale sign that someone is gay?

Share your thoughts with me here or e-mail me at choosingmrwrong@gmail.com.