'Pleasure Is In Your Own Hands'

How often do you please yourself, whack off, get down by yourself, ummm masturbate?

This is an extremely personal question, but I think it’s necessary to know about your significant other.

In my mind, it indicates many things.

Hmmm, for a woman I think it indicates if she knows her body. After all, how can you expect a guy to get you there and you don’t even know how to get yourself there.

And for a guy, I think the same.

I also think that it says something about a person’s sexual drive, too. Although if a person is getting into the habit of just personal pleasing and don’t want to be involved with another party, there may be an intimacy problem.

I once had a person tell me that a woman who uses toys may not desire her partner as much. Well, I’m not so sho about that theory because there’s nothing that can take the place of human touch and as humans we should all crave human touch.

But back to the question of masturbating.

Spain is about to launch a sex education program. The slogan is "Pleasure is in your own hands."

I love it. It seems so empowering. :)

And from all that I have read, there isn’t a certain amount of masturbating that is considered healthy or unhealthy. Everybody has different desires and needs and drives so three times a week may be the key for one person while everyday or several times a day is necessary for another.

People please themselves for several reasons. First and foremost, many do it for pleasure. But others do it to celebrate or release stress.

And if you don’t masturbate, it likely stems from feelings of guilt that were instilled in you as a child. Masturbation is bad. For guys, you don’t masturbate if you can get a woman cause only men who can’t get a woman masturbate. Not true.

If it’s OK for your girl to give a hand job, ummm you might wanna do it yourself first so that she doesn’t kill herself trying to figure out which way you like it. If you have done it yourself, you will know and ummm you can tell her. LOLOLOLO

Same thing for the ladies, don’t go jumping in the sack with a guy and expect him to make you see fireworks when you have not a clue as to what helps you to see stars. LOLOLOL

But if your significant other asked you how often do you masturbate, are you prepared to give an honest answer?