Men Not Made To Be Monogamous

I’ve recently had some interesting conversations with someone who got caught cheating on his wife.

She gave him the heave-ho out the house. He cried and cried and cried.

But his situation made me revisit in my mind why the heck do people cheat.

In most cases, I think women in these situations go through a range of emotions that causes them to feel like they failed somewhere but I don’t think so.

I think that men who cheat are lacking something within. There is a deficiency that no one can really feel.

I see it like a rock hitting a windshield and causing a small hole. Eventually if that ding isn’t repaired, it’s going to spread across the windshield.

Yea, it starts out really small but whew it can cause hella damage to a windshield.

And I don’t think this applies to just men, it applies to women too.

I think inner turmoil is present if people tend to cheat in their relationships.

Although I see this as the No. 1 reason I do believe there are other things that cause people to cheat.

Sexual dissatisfaction can sometimes cause a person to tiptoe. Because who wants to be involved with someone and the diggity is terrible.

I’ve talked to people who have said I like him or her but the sex is just OK. Well, OK, is going to come back to haunt you. It needs to be hanging from the chandeliers specfabulous if you are driven sexually. :) Soooo you really need to know what drives you.

I also think that an emotional disconnect can cause a person to cheat. If two people aren’t talking about how they feel, what they want, what makes them angry or sad or happy, the siren is going off and they just have not heard it yet.

Surprisingly, an askmen.com article pointed to the same two reasons.

The article says that people should ask themselves what is stronger in his or her life -- the need to be emotionally connected to a person or sexually connected to a person?

But then the article goes on to say that it is not a man’s biological nature to be monogamous. Heck, it says humans are not monogamous by nature. I’ve heard this and heard this and heard this, but I can’t buy it.

But because this is something to keep in mind, I’m gonna buy a few wigs and introduce a few characters to my relationship. LOLOLOL

But seriously, can it be that natural human behavior is not to be monogamous? Wow!