Too Hard To Please = Alone

I had a conversation with a guy lately that made me realize that no matter how you twist or turn it some folks just cannot be pleased.

I felt it before talking to him but after talking with him, I was sho fo sho fo sho.

He was sexy and arrogant. I'll be the first to say, I do not automatically feel like ugg when sexiness and arrogance walks into a room.

There is something about a confident man, so my confidence meter may sometimes get it all mixed up -- cocky, arrogant, confident -- they become a blur.

I remember hearing a girl in the hair salon say this about another guy. I thought she was being a bit presumptuous but she is right.

I think you can almost look at a person and tell right off the batty bat ummm this is a hard guy or chickypoo to deal with.

And I also think that the harder someone tries to please a person like this, the harder they become to please. I hope that makes sense.

Heck, these people stood in the I like being alone line twice or sumptin cause that is what is going to happen to them.

But because this guy was a friend of a family member and I am outspoken I told him he was hard to get along with.

But he agreed!

We went on playing out relationship scenarios so that he would know why I said what I said.

I asked how he would respond if a woman prepared a meal for him and it's not what he wanted.

"I wouldn't eat it because she should have asked me what I like," he barks.

Wowsa Yowsa, this cat, I mean dog, is going to be alone or make some woman's life miserable, I think to myself.

Then he tells me the size woman he prefers. I'm 135 and 5 foot 1, but he tells me that if he was dating a woman my height she should be about 145. OK. Some folks just like what they like.

The size thing I can't argue with because I do not like guys with big bello bellies. LOLOLOL

"And then no weave," he interjects. "At least not one of those crazy weaves. I hate that stuff."

I'm with him on the weavy weave. I think women need to put a freeze on some of these crazy looking weaves.

But then I ask, "Do women actually try to please you?"

He said, "Yes."

But then I keep going and tell him, you might want to think about the character qualities that a person possesses and not be soooo demanding because you may end up alone with your list of criteria and your demanding attitude.

"I don't care if I end up alone," he snaps. "I'm not settling."

Well, ahright, ahright. I'm going to close my mouf and shake my head and worry about my own business.

Some people just cannot be pleased.

Do you know somebody like that? Tell me.