Using Sexual Positions Book

Do couple’s actually buy and read sexual positions books?

I have a few books in my personal library that explain various positions and techniques. I read them because I’m curious.

If you believe that, I have a bridge I want to sell you. :)

Part of it is curiosity, however.

The question entered my mind because I recently discussed a very interesting book that I have read with a friend. The book is titled, "How To Be A Great Lover."

The book includes just about everything you would want to know about hand jobs, oral sex, positions, foreplay, kissing, everything.

She wants to read the book. Well actually she wants to read the book with her husband. Heck, she says she wants to be a great lover so she wants to know what he think is interesting. What they can do? What he likes, etc. etc.

I think this is great because I don't hear of this kind of stuff often.

I do know of one couple who actually read "Sex Chronicles" together. I thought it was a great idea when I heard about it. How exciting? How fun? Can you imagine reading a book about sex with your boooo? That is some serious foreplay.

Any who.

I thought about how opening a book about sex could possibly offend.

Yea, there are some peeps who will say, "What, I’m not good enough?" But wouldn't it be nice to not have to worry about offending your lover.

And then trying to implement some new stuff may be a bit tricky too. OK, you’ve read about something. It sounds great. It sounds interesting, but do you keep the manual nearby to help if you have forgotten exactly what you should do. LOLOLOL

That can kill a mood, but some of the positions are very involved, so I do believe the book would have to be open.

And then there’s always changing the position or technique up to fall in line with what your partner really wants. Yea, the book may say do it this way, but what if she says she likes it that way.

What are your thoughts? Would you be offended if your partner said let’s read this book to add some spicy spice to our sex life? Would you be offended if a partner left a book open to a particular technique?

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