Take Quiz: Is He Capable Of Commitment?

I enrolled in a How To Date e-course not too long ago called Dating Without Drama.

I definitely don't want any drama in my life so when I got an e-mail to join the e-course I raised my hand and said, "Present!" :)

The e-course involves getting dating tips and scenarios and just overall good information about dating.

But there was some information provided in the e-course that I just felt compelled to share.

And guys, before you get upset I'm also enrolled in an e-course on how to attract the woman of your dreams. I will share tips from that course soon.

I would love for the guys to take the quiz below and tell me what you think of the quiz as a whole. Is it at all a good way to ascertain if a man is willing to commit?

I know the women will jump right into the quiz. Ladies don't forget to tell me what you think of the quiz and tell me your score.

Happy Relationships!

1. Choose the answer that best reflects your guy's relationship
history:

a) He's had a handful of serious girlfriends, but
broke things off when he realized that they weren't
"the one."

b) He's dated a few women, but the relationships haven't
lasted past 3 months or so.

c) Cartons of milk have a longer shelf life than his
so-called "relationships."


2. You invite him to be your guest at a friend's wedding that
is six weeks away. He responds:

a) "Uh, wow. That's a long time from now. I'm still trying
to decide what I want to do tomorrow."

b) "Let me check my calendar and get back to you."

c) "Count me in! Tux or suit?"


3. You and your guy are walking down the street when he bumps
into a good friend of his whom you haven't met yet. He:

a) ...introduces you nervously: "Hey, Mark, this is, um,
uh, Darlene. Darlene, this is my best
buddy from college, Mark."

b) ...carries on a five minute conversation with his
friend without introducing you or even acknowledging
your presence, while you stand by, feeling awkward
and dismissed.

c) ...proudly puts his arm around you and says, "Mark,
I'd like you to meet my girlfriend, Darlene."
And Mark replies, "Wow, so you're Darlene!
I've heard so much about you."


4. After a week of your guy acting strange and a little
distant, you decide to ask him, "Is everything ok with our
relationship?" He replies:

a) "We're fine. I've just got something on my mind that
I'd rather not talk about."

b) "Everything's great with our relationship. I'm just
really stressed about work. Thanks for asking."

c) "What do you mean by 'relationship?'"


5. When the topic of marriage comes up (hypothetically in
conversation, on TV or in a movie, etc), he says:

a) "I could see us married one day... can't you?"

b) "Marriage is for suckers! I'm never getting tied down."

c) "Sure I want to get married ... Once my career is
established and I've saved some money and I've had
enough time hanging with the guys and done some
traveling and..."


Scoring:

1. a = 4 b = 2 c = 0

2. a = 0 b = 2 c = 4

3. a = 2 b = 0 c = 4

4. a = 2 b = 4 c = 0

5. a = 4 b = 0 c = 2

Now add your points from each question. If your total is:


16 - 20 ..... 100% CAPABLE OF COMMITMENT
While he may not be completely certain of what his
future holds, he definitely sees you in it!
Keep the lines of communication open and you
should have no trouble staying on the same page.


8 - 14 ..... ON THE FENCE
He's not opposed to the *idea* of commitment - he's
just not ready to seriously consider how it fits
into his life just yet.

If you're in the early stages of dating him,
you enjoy the time you spend together and are
comfortable with just "seeing where it goes,"
there's nothing wrong with continuing to go out
with him. Just be prepared to move on if you get
to the point where you're sure you want something
more serious and he doesn't.


0 - 6 ..... COMMITMENT PHOBIC
Whether he just doesn't see you as long-term
girlfriend material or he's got deep-seated
issues/fear about the *concept* of commitment
in general, this guy is probably a lost cause.
If he's so concerned with having his "freedom,"
you might want to free yourself up to meet
someone who will recognize what a catch you are
and is happy to commit himself to you
wholeheartedly!