Cell Phones Can Make Or Break You

It's a new day with relationships because of technology. This includes cell phones, facebook, twitter, and email.

Some is good and some is bad.

It's exciting, oh boy, is it exciting to get enticing or provocative text messages. MMMMM, did he really send a pic of his DI. hehehehehehe

But what if your 20/20 is not supposed to be looking at another DI or Va-ja-jay because you have someone who thinks you belong to him or her?

Text messaging has caused many relationships, including marriages, to come to a screeching halt.

One of my gfs told me a story about her relative, who is involved in divorce proceedings, finding photos and video, yea video, of her husband and another woman during diggity.

Ummmm, first thought to enter my mind is -- is he learning disabled? Why would you take a pic of yourself in that type of situation with another person and you are in a relationship?

You big dummy!

You are missing some of your brain functionality to actually capture video of you having sex with another woman or man if you are married or in a serious relationship, I'm just sayin...

But not only is snapping a photo or capturing video of you and your new bootie or beau just dumb, so is allowing that person to send you a photo of a boobie, bootie, DI or Va-ja-jay if you are in a relationship.

I just shake my head when I hear the stories.

But is this just a new version of going through somebody's stuff and technology is just involved? It used to be that you would go through a person's thing and find pics and letters.

And then remember the pager and how folks would send a 69? If a significant other saw this it would drop a jaw because then the owner of the eyes looking would know, danggone, danggone, danggone, it's somebody else involved in this here relationship.

But what about looking at a person's phone?

I'm not going to lie, I've looked at a person's cell phone before.

I've looked through drawers and stuff before. I was much younger and ummm dumber.

But those days are ovah!

If I get the urge, I plan to cease and desist the relationship. It's not worth the heartache or headache.

If I'm feeling suspicious then I must go with my gut and remove myself from the situation. Yep, this is a promise I've made to myself.

I would rather cut off my right hand than go through someone's cell phone, so you know I'm serious, serious, serious.

You just feel soooo stupid and sooooo insecure and soooo stupid. If you find something or not.

Fudge that shiggidy!

But what technology do you find most damaging to relationships? Is it photos, text messages, e-mails, Facebook, etc.

Share your thoughts with me here or e-mail me at choosngmrwrong@gmail.com.