I find it quite interesting how some women can take it or leave it....yep, I am talking about diggity.
I have had some of the craziest conversations with women who seem like they can't get enough and others who pretend to be sleep because they have no desire to be with their significant other at all.
I do understand that everyone has varied levels of desire. Some may want it twice a day, others once a day, others every other day and still others a couple times a week.
My bottom lip falls on the floor when I hear women say that they have NO desire at all and they don't even want it.
Wowsa!
Don't even want it! This is the part of the conversation when my lip is on the floor and my eyes are bulging out my head. I have tried to hide it but I can't. How I feel on the inside shows on my face.
First, we are all sexual beings. We are animals!!! Second, don't we need it. After all, that is what leads to procreation. Third, it's a great stress reliever. Fourth, it puts a bounce in your step. Fifth, it gives you a glow. Sixth, it feels good...OK, OK, OK!
Sooooo how do you get to a certain age, or have children, or dislike your husband or significant other soooooo much that you decide I JUST DON'T WANT IT ANYMORE!
I've been hearing this type of whatever attitude toward a healthy sex life (healthy to me is at least 3 times a week, according to the Diggity Institute ... LOLOLO) for a while and have found out there are a few things that a woman can do to boost her desire.
Try meditative breathing. Innnnnnnn and Ouuuuuuuuut.... :)
Exercise.
Get your testerone level checked to make sure it's not too low. Ummmm, there's medication for that.
Eat bananas, oysters, avocados, pumpkin seeds, garlic.
Take Ginkgo bilobo or a supplement that will help blood flow.
Now, that's what I have read and I would like to add -- read a few sexual books,lose some weight, yea, I said it!!!! ... take a striptease class, take a pole dancing class, put on a wig and act like a prostitute LOLOLOLOL ....OK, enough of that :)
But when should a woman be concerned about her libido? What is a too low libido? Once a month?
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