I May Be A Lil Shallow.....

One of my friends pointed out an article about Lisa Raye that discussed how she is not interested in dating men without money.

Interestingly, she dated and married a man who was a prince or whatever he was who appeared to have plenty of cash. Problem was that he didn't have any money. In fact, he was broke.

Now, she is crystal clear in her desires ummmm a man with money. :)

And what girl wouldn't want that. Is there anyone who would say sure give me a broke a$$ man...I don't think soooooo.

Any who.

After I thought about her position, I was like who am I to judge her. If she doesn't want to date a man who doesn't make a certain amount of money, good for her.

Plus, if she dates someone with less AGAIN she could be setting herself up for a huge loss...as in getting involved with someone who wants to take what she has. And boi oh boi oh boi, there are a lot of men who are sooooo looooserish (yea, I made that up) that it is not funny. Girls who want to take a guy to the cleaners are gold diggers. Guys who want to use up a woman for everything she has are looooserish. Get it. Got it! Good! :)

My friend, however, called her shallow.

Hmmmmmm Really? Is that shallow?

Then I sorta turned inward as I tend to do when relationship shiggidy comes up. I'm an ever-evolving being in this area. I don't really want to date anybody beneath me. Yep, I said it...BEEEENEEEEEAAAATH me! As for income, it would be nice to have it comparable. The reality is money causes aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa lot of problems in relationships so if salaries were comparable --- this to me would be the beginning of a recipe for success.

But forget the finances for just a second. I thought about how I have tried to date a few shorter fellas and fatter fellas and -- ooooooh myyyyyyy -- close but no cigar. Nah, let me stop lying before my pants catch fire. It's not even close to an attraction with a shorter man and definitely not a fatter man.

Soooooooo am I shallow because I have decided that I am not going to date any Fatsooooooos and Shorty Macks!!!!???

One guy told me he used to play football so that was why he was on the overweight lover side ... ummmmmmm nooo, you are fat! lololololol

But seriously, am I shallow? Tell me and don't forget to be honest :)