I took issue with a guy recently who said that after a woman has been through soooooo much she isn't necessarily interested in finding a man's hot spot, kissing him and loving on him.
Exsqueeeze me.
I said hole hole hole (not hold) up! Are you saying that if a woman has experienced difficulties in relationships then she is no longer affectionater etcetera etcetra :)
He looked me dead in my face and said "Yes, that is what I am saying."
I like to listen to people and try to understand their angle. This one I couldn't get at all, so I said, "Are You Kidding ME!?"
Again, the response was a convincing NO. He wasn't pulling my leg. He meant what he just said.
Well, I say, if a woman is not feeling adored and special, heck you might not get nothing but I think saying that it's because she has been through sooooo much is a bit of stretch.
He goes on to tell me that this is one of the reasons why he will not date women who are his age (early 40s). He says younger girls want to talk dirty and whisper in your ear and find your hot spot.
I pounce on bofe feet and hands, "Are you kidding me?!!"
He wasn't kidding at all. Really, he wasn't kidding.
So then I go into the whole idea of being a selfish lover. Some peeps are just selfish in bed. They aren't interested in pleasing. They only want to be pleased! And ummm, this is the absolute worse, LOLOLOL
Any who.
We go back and forth on this, but he maintains his original thoughts that older women in their mid to late 30s on up aren't necessarily interested in finding what makes her love interest tick or shake LOLOLOL in the bedroom.
Soooo what do you think? Can a selfish lover be taught to be a pleaser or is it a lost cause?
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