It's always interesting to get people's take on the many different situations that are dealt with in a relationship.
I have had some of the most interesting conversations about homes, his home, her home and their home.
Without a doubt, I think a man moving into a woman's home may be one of the hardest things on the planet to do. I am a woman sooooo I know she is likely to refer to it as MY MY MY MY MY, like it is a dayuuuum song. And who the heckypoo wants to hear that. So on this fellas, I say steer clear, very clear because moving into her home is likely to make a OK relationship turrible, just turrible. LOLOLOL
But what about a house that your boo once shared with a former love?
A house is not a small purchase so I understand that this may be necessary sometimes. In an ideal world, however, the home will sell and the two peeps can buy a home together, but errr uhhh, that is an ideal world and with the housing market being the way it is, ummmm let's just say it is not ideal.
But moving into a home shared with a former lover may cause a bit of problem for me. I'm just sayin...I mean really, it was her house and she likely picked it out. I definitely picked out my house with my ex.
I do think that it is something that I could get over, particularly if renovations are done. And yea, a new bed. LOLOLOLO
Sooooo, would you have a problem moving into a home that your new boo once shared with a former love?
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