I Want Someone On Fire For Me!

"Fire and Desire" -- Remember that song by Teena Marie and Rick James.

In a nutshell, it talks about how a man used to be cold-blooded and mean and cruel but then this woman turned on his fire. She showed him what a love could do.

Well, this song came to mind while having a conversation with a guy friend. He was telling me how when two people are in a serious relationship, one shouldn't have to ask the other for diggity or kisses.

I agree.

Then he shared with me how he has been in a situation before when he had to ask and how he never wants to be in that type of drought again.

I couldn't agree more.

He continued and said that he wants a woman who is on fiyah for him.

This is when it got really goood to me. I truly agree.

After all, who wants to be with a person who is only lukewarm on you. It's sorta like that I can take it or leave it. Take you or leave you. Coma Ci Coma Sa --- I don't even know if that is the spelling. LOLOLOL

Any who.

While love and respect and admiration and all that good stuff feels good in a relationship, I would have to say that being desired is HUGE ummmmm Humungous, Gigantic, XXXX-Large and Supersized.

And I am not talking about lust. I am talking about someone who wants to talk to you. Someone who appreciates the things you do. Someone who wants to spend time with you. Someone who thinks of you. Someone who will drop what she or he is doing to do it to you! LOLOLOL

On Fire with Desire for you!

His conversation made me think of another conversation I had when I told some peeps that if you don't really wanna have diggity with your mate, you may not like him or her.

If his or her breathing or coughing or snorting or ugly feet or dark knuckles or dirty ears or any of those little things get on your nerves and you don't really need to be with that person. LOLOLOLOL

All that keeps you from craving him or her like they deserve to be craved, so get out the way and make room for Mr. Cough A Lot, Or Ms. Ugly Feet to get the person in their life that they truly deserve LOLOLOLOL

Plus, why would you waste your time with a person and you are not on fiyah for him or her? Or is being desired important to you? How important on a scale from 1 to 10.