Have You Ever Heard Of Obligatory Sex?

I have a theory.

Because the brain is the main sex organ, I think, well heck I know, that the way a person is treated or spoken to can decrease sexual desire.

Namecalling and talking mean can send desire plummeting --- ERRRRRRRR Boooom!

After all, who wants to really do the do with a person who is talking crazy to them or treating them terribly?

Any who.

With that said, I think that someone can increase your sex drive. Hmmmmm. If someone is treating you really nice and special, you will crave them, you will desire them, you will want them.

This theory is based on a conversation that I had with several women. Some say that the desire to partake just isn't there like it used to be.

Some say I did it so much when I was younger, I can take it or leave it?

My eyes get wide, and to myself I say, "Huh? Really? What? Is there a shelf life on desire?"

I have several opinions about how medication can affect one's drive -- women and men. Being on medication has side effects and sometimes popping pills for whatever ails you can kill your sex drive.

When I tell people this, they usually look at me like I'm saying something that isn't true. It's true. Ask any doctor or heck read the fine print for side effects of medication.

But in the midst of this conversation about sex, medication and desire, a few ladies admit that if their significant other brings flowers or plans a romantic evening that they then feel obligated to perform. Wowsa Yowsa!

This time, my mouf opens and I verbalize, "Are you kidding me? If you get flowers or taken to dinner or treated really special, you just don't feel all warm and bubbly on the inside and just wanna?"

No, No, No, No, I hear resounding in the room.

I am in shock. I am in disbelief. I am glad I was not walking because I may have tripped and fallen. LOLOLOL

But my question is this: Is obligatory sex a big problem in relationships? Do people just feel obligated to indulge?