Don't Be Cruel

You prolly thought of Bobby Brown and started doing that dance that he did with your arms and legs because you read, "Don't Be Cruel."

But don't break out in a jig just yet I have some real talk about being cruel.

A recent conversation with someone got me to really thinking about mean people. I hate mean people, well, I have a muscle-bound dislike for mean people.

Any who.

He said that when a man starts treating a woman really mean, it is because he wants out of the relationship and doesn't know what to do to get out of it.

Sooooo rather than be a stand-up type of fella, he acts like a behind hole and calls you delusional and insane and crazy and all kinda mean shiggidy that will make YOU hit the highway.

And I have to say that not spending time is what I considered to be the telltale sign, but errrr uhhh you live and you learn.

Heck, looking back I've had some really mean stuff happen to me and I actually thought it was a character issue -- fo real, fo real.

It was a mean one day and nice the next so I didn't know what the heck to think, but I guess now he was desperately telling me I want O-U-T right now, right now, not tomorrow or the next day, right now! LOLOLOLOL

But why do peeps have to be mean or cruel or nasty or ugly to someone if they just wanna hit the road. Just hit the doe and don't come back no moe. :)

Do you think people start treating their significant other really mean when they want out of a relationship? What do people do when they want O-U-T?! Tell me.