Your Single Friends Can Get You Into Trouble

Over the weekend, I had an interesting conversation with a gf about singles hanging with married people.

I used to be married so my perspective is simple -- in everything, life is a juggling act. This means, one cannot do too much of anything, including hanging with single friends.

I believe that I am a good influence on all my friends, whether they are married or single, because I always look at the glass half full. Yeppers, I am an optimist.

Soooo if one of my friends is dealing with an issue in a marriage or a relationship or a dating situation, I try to find the good in it. I prolly do this a little bit too much actually, but this is my personality.

Any who.

There was a recent incident with one of my married friends and her husband said to her I betcha if it had been them they would not have still been hanging with you, meaning the friend would have been with her man.

And ummmm he is right. Women like to be with their man when they have one and a man who is really interested in a woman wants to spend most of his free time with her. Can I get an Amen from the choir? LOLOLOLOL

But when a person gets married, I don't think that he or she has to abandon their single friends but ummmm they can't be ripping and running with them as if they were single.

Really this means, a married person has to pick and choose the events and outings that they want to attend. After all, if you are with the person of your dreams, you should really want to spend the bulk of your time with him or her.

Amen! Amen! LOLOLOLOLOL

What are your thoughts? Should married people hang out with single people? Should they limit how many tmes they go out? Share your thoughts with me.