I had an interesting conversation with a guy about renting, leasing and buying as it relates to relationships.
His argument is that usually a guy goes into a relationship understanding which one he is doing. Hmmmm
He said that a women may not be able to initially distiguish exactly what type of purchase has been made but after three months it will become more apparent.
A rent, he said, is usually treated rough. In this type of relationship, the man has no interest in keeping the girl around for long.
With a lease, the guy is OK with the current situation but has no intention of buying. He said that a lot of women get caught up in this type of relationship and never end up married.
In the buy, the man has every intention on making the girl his and goes out of his way to let her know that he sees a future with her. With this, however, he said it is important to watch the man's actions and not only go by what he is saying.
In all three kinds, he said a three-month relationship checkup is necessary to try to figure out if both people see the relationship the same. At three months, the type of relationship forming should be clear.
Do you have a good idea of where a relationship is going at three months? How long?
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