Ah, Ah To Anal Sex

Couples experiment sexually.

Positions, threesomes, places, things, costumes, all that.

I’ve sat around sipping wine and jibba jabbin with friends who talk about oral sex. Some will say, yea, I enjoy giving. Others may say, nah, I don’t really enjoy it but I will do it. Then you have the quiet-as-a-mouse girlie who doesn’t mutter a word. She’s just listening.

Ah huh, the big ears in the crowd.

And when the topic is sex it goes in all kind of directions.

Soon, anal sex is on the table. Well, not the table but up for discussion.

Again, some say yea I’ve tried it. Others are oppoooooooooooosed completely. Ouch! But when this conversation comes up, women talk about the pain. They talk about that HE wanted to try it. They talk about it being uncomfortable.

But as I search my memory, I never, neva remember in all my diggity conversations anybody saying, "Yep, I love it. I love it. I love it!"

I’m not saying that these women don't exist. It's just that I don't know anyone who has said, "Oh I'll take it up da you know what and I love it," like the porno stars. :)

I may be wrong about this, but I also think that in the black community anal sex isn't smiled upon. Nah, I'm not going to say that it is frown upon, but I definitely don't think it's smiled on either.

With the phenomenon of men being on the down low (sleeping with men secretly) in the black community, it is something that makes a woman's eyes widen and the wheels in her brain get to turnin'.

Hmmmmmm. What is this shiggidy all about?

What does he want this for? Is he on the down low?

As always, I've read about the fascination with the back door, with the pooper shooter. LOLOLOL

I've read that it's interesting for them because it's tight and it's new. And then there's the whole G-spot search, hunt, fascination. Whatever you would like to call it.

So have you ever met a woman who has said she actually enjoys anal? And Ladies, have you ever thought to yourself deeeeeep down, why does he want this? Tell me.