Sexual Compatibility: It's There Or Not

What happens if you meet someone and you like everything about him or her? Evthing, but then the sex is no good.

After three strikes in baseball, the umpire says, "Yourrrrr Out!"

So in a relationship, if the sex isn’t that good, should a person get the ole heave-ho?

I’ve had experiences in which I just give a fake smile and say OOOOOK. But I’ve had other experiences that brighten my smile, my skin and my day.

I prefer the after-effects of the latter experience. But does that mean that I’m more sexually compatible with that person?

Hmmm.

Sexual compatibility isn't all about great sex. It’s more like the difference between Fu@&!#% and making passionate love.

I found some good information, so I thought I would share the love.

To be sexually compatible, two people should have mutual likes and dislikes of touch.

I once had a person who groped and grabbed at me in a way that made me feel invaded.

"Ouch, that hurts," I would try to say calmly.

But in my mind, I would be screaming, "My boobs are not cantaloupes. That hurts you idiot!"

Another very important part of sexual compatibility is sexual positions and types of sex enjoyed.

We all have preferences, but clearly some people love one type of sex over another.

Compatibility would also include if the people involved like the way the Va-jay-jay or DI feel. Not too tight, not too loose. Not too big and not too small.

Timing is also a big factor. If one likes action first thing in the morning and the other loves it at night, Houston, we have a problem.

When is not the only factor with timing. The other timing issue is the longevity.

If a Mr. Premature Ejaculator is involved with Ms. Go Long And Strong, that’s likely not gonna be a "perfection combination,
lovers you and me
a perfect combination,
we fit to a tee,
perfect combination."

Oh, sorry, Johnny Gill and Stacy Lattisaw hit me.

Location is also a big deal in this whole sexual compatibility thing. If someone is very regimented and only wants IT in the bedroom, someone who is interested in kitchen sex will be displeased.

There are emotional psychological aspects of sexual compatibility, too.

This involves how much time a person spends thinking about sex and wanting to be seduced throughout a day.

Hmmmm.

I once found myself in a conversation, shoot, debate with a person about the importance of seduction throughout the day. How the build up is foreplay? How there is excitement when a note, call or text is received. Do you know this person thought I was off my rockers?

How important is sexual compatibility to you? Rate it from 1 to 10. Have you ever been in a relationship and you knew in your heart of hearts that you weren’t sexual compatible? How did you deal with it?

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