When He Doesn't Ask You Out Again

I’m always excited when my gfs go out on dates. It may just be that they have found that love of their life and it’s material for my blog. :)

One of my gfs recently met a new guy and they went on a date and from everything that she told me things were fine, but there’s one problem.

He hasn’t asked her out again.

I keep asking, “When are you guys going out again?” “When are you going to see him again?”

She seems unaffected. She hasn't given it a second thought.

I’m not trying to be a pest but I’ve always thought that if a guy is interested, he will ask you out.

And yea, I know there are all kinds of rules of engagement. Don’t seem so eager. Don’t call so quickly. Don’t seem like you don’t have a life. All that.

But shouldn’t a guy ask a girl out within a day or two if he is really interested?

I think I have experience in the dating world, although I can’t say that I’m the master dater. I’m more of a one guy at a time type of girl. There’s pros and cons to this but it’s the way I am so it just is what it is.

Any who.

I’ve gone out on dates before and wasn’t interested in seeing the guy any more. It wasn’t like he was a terrible fella. It was just that I was no longer interested. I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings so I don’t come right out and say, “No, I don’t want to see you again,” but I’m behaving in an uninterested way. But errr uhhh, I will be straightforward and direct if it becomes necessary.

I may not answer when he calls. If he asks to see me again, I may tell him I have plans.

As a matter of fact, I went out with a guy who told me that he didn’t want any children on the date. He was a cool guy, but as soon as he said that I told myself that he is a waste of time and there’s no need for a part two.

I was uninterested. He may be wondering why I wasn’t interested because I never told him, but whatever.

Soooo, if a guy is interested in a woman how long should he take to ask her out again? And should you tell someone while on a date, NO, I’m not interested in seeing you again because…..