Drama Queens, Nah Drama Kings

I don't care what anyone says some peeps just like drama. It's like they thrive off of negative shiggidy.

I can't do it -- not past, not present, not future. It's for the birds.

Whenever I see drama, I'm heading in the opposite direction. No thank you, sir.

When I think of drama, a guy I dated years ago comes to mind. He seemed pretty nice on the surface, said all the right stuff, did all the right things. He was nice.

But I remember once he told me "to toughen up," and I don't even remember about what.

But ummmm, no you didn't. Noooooo, you didn't just tell me to toughen up.

He knew that it was going to make me bizzonkers, but it's what he thrived on. It wasn't until later that I realized that he was just drama, drama, drama.

And men talk about women being drama queens? Nah, there are some drama kings out there.

It's like these men work up all this drama and shiggidy to just evoke emotions, to just get a reaction, to just be dayuuum doing sumptin.

It's fo the birds.

And I know guys, like women, have their issues. They want to find someone who will have their back, cook for them and yadda yadda yadda.

But when I stumble upon some information about the Deep Inner Game, I was intrigued.

Yea, the premise is a guy may be smooth, nice whateva but on the inside things are in turmoil -- the inner game is a mess.

A relationship coach offers tips to men on dating and finding love. He pinpoints 7 reasons or signs that a guy's inner game is off and oh boi, oh boi, oh boi, he's on the money.

1. Irrational and Uncontrollable Fear. Heck this is just jealousy actually.
But fear of rejection, fear of embarassment, fear of loss can all cause a woman to say uggg, and as the coach explains determine that the inner game is not up to par.

2. Constant Anxiety is another warning sign that the inner game is lacking. Fear that he will not be able to attract the woman he wants. Fear that the one who he likes will not like him. Well, the relationship coach didn't say it but sounds like low self-esteem to me.

3. Immaturity is ummm just that immaturity. The guy can't handle situations that bother him. They usually go into a rage when they can't have it their way. Yuck!

4. Unpredictable Emotional Turmoil is another sign. Wowsa Yowsa. I like a man who isn't rock hard, but come on. Let's not fight over the hanki to cry in.

5. Other People Running Your Life is yet another one. And this one is big particularly with men who cannot keep their mamas from telling them what the fudge to do. For sure, this type of guy's inner game is off.

6. Never Understanding Emotions kinda perplexed me for a second, but I think I understand. I've heard in the past that men only feel happiness and anger. Sooo if indeed they are NOT soooo simplistic if they feel another emotion that can't fall into the happy or mad category, there's a problem. And basically they would just need to see someone. Heck talk to a therapist if you are always mad or sad. They may have a pill for that. Which leads me to the coach's last reason.

7. Wanting To Get Help But Not Knowing Where To Go. I say go to a spiritual advisor, pastor, older uncle, good friend, therapist, go somewhere and get your inner game fixed.

I hear women talk about getting themselves together, but I think it's some guys out there who may need to get themselves together too and cut out the danggone drama.

I'm standing in the line that says NO DRAMA. Thank you.

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