Dating Is Necessary In Recession

Interestingly during tough economic times, humans return to something that comes natural to all of us.

Diggity, well ummm, sex.

This has become a major form of entertainment for couples all over – married and single.

And yea, while people may not have money to go to a movie or to dinner as often, there is a lot of diggity going on.

Condom sales have skyrocketed, so peeps are doing it. But another study shows that people are quite sure this is NOT the right time to take on additional responsibility of feeding another mouth.

But Ian Kerner, a relationship expert and author of several books, says it is important to not forego dates completely during a recession.

And because it’s likely been a while for some, I will give a lesson on what is a date. I’ve had the discussion with several people and there seems to be a bit of confusion.

There are three levels to connecting and nurturing a relationship for couples.

1. Attending family and friends functions, outings, cookouts and events.

This is not a date. Don’t get me wrong this type of time spent together will contribute to a happy, healthy relationship. This type of time together is crucial when discovering if a person will fit in. If your mom or sister really like her. If your dad or brother thinks she’s materialistic. If you are family-oriented, this type of time out together is integral to establishing a good relationship. Once together, it is also crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship.

2. Quality Time

This is not a date. Snuggled up on the couch watching a good movie. Playing video games and board games. Holding hands while walking in the park, picking up a pizza on the way to your girl’s house is not a date. It is simply spending time together. Again, it is crucial to the health of a relationship but it’s not a date.

3. Date

Going to dinner, shooting pool, bowling, seeing a movie. Bingo! This is a date.

This gives a partner an opportunity to treat that special someone extra special. It also is a sign to the world that you have a boo in your life. You want to let the world know. You want the world to know that you are busting at the seams with excitement and joy about your new boogaloo. And if you never go out in public with him or her, ummm, dat dere is a problem.

And think about this. If just spending time together is a date why do some married people have date night? Ah hah ah hah.

You also want to treat him or her because they are special. Notice, I said him or her. Yes, I believe that both men and women should be taken on dates. And yes, when you take someone on a date, you pay.

I know that peeps will disagree with me. Some people think a date is any time spent together. Ummmm, nope. A date is a special token of your appreciation for having that person in your life. You enjoy his or her company so let's have some big ole fun.

So what is a date to you? Share your comments here or e-mail me at choosingmrwrong@gmail.com.