I'm not sure of the line in one of Drake's raps, but it says something about not being able to find someone who hasn't been with everybody.
To me, it is an interesting phenomenon because it seems like everybody has been with everybody. And it's not like they had any type of lasting relationship...it was just diggity. Wham, bam...or ooochie cooochie cause I'm horny. LOLOLOLOLO
But I have to caution women and yep, men too...nobody wants to be with someone that everybody has been with. One more time...NO ONE wants to be with a person that everybody has laid down with...get it...got it...good.
OK, let's quantify everybody. For a man, I will give a slight pass because men can be a bit more promiscuous than women and it not be a terrible, terrible thing....wowsa did I say that? Yep, I said it!
Dating is sooooo interesting to me. If you date a person who has never been married ummmmm get ready...but if you date a person who is divorced, their numbers can add up too. As a matter of fact, my jaw has dropped at the number of people some have dated and slept with. I've thought about giving a few people T-shirts that read: I have dated and I have slept with just about everybody....LOLOLOLOLOL
Truly, I have to say it's a major turnoff. There is nothing worse than going out with a guy who has slept with half of the city and dated the other half of the single population.
I went out with one guy and I knew he had been out here and there and everywhere, but I said what the heckypoo, I'm just going on a date. But then I started thinking this is a big ole waste of my time because I can't get pass the fact that he has been with soooooooooooooooo many people, so let me grab my purse and take my arse home.
I do think it is worse, however, when a woman who has been with half the single population. And I have to say that being loose as a goose may contribute to why she hasn't landed a fella who wants to marry her...IJS...Again, who wants someone who everybody has been with?
With that said, and being honest, would you date a guy or girl who has really been around town...Would it bother you if you knew five or ten people she or he has done the oochie cooochie with? Be honest.
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ReplyDeleteAwesome post...interesting question...No if the number was 5 and under and yes if it was higher like 10...15...20, to be honest, it doesn't speak very highly of them :)
ReplyDeleteThank you sooooooo much Ms. Vicki...I have blogged about A LOT of stuff and this topic came to mind after a conversation about women not being wife material...Thanks again!
ReplyDeleteIf you know that much it is time to move to a new city
ReplyDeleteDarlene,I WAS JUST RECENTLY INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT GOES FROM ONE EXTREME TO THE NEXT. iN THE BEGGINING THE RELATIONSHIP WAS GREAT, BUT AFTER A YEAR AND A HALF HE STARTED PLAYING GAMES. hE WAS MENTALLY AND VERBALLY ABUSIVE. hE WANTED TO communicate WHEN HE WANTED TO TALK,AND BE MEAN at OTHER TIMES. I didnt want to leave any names bc i think you know him
ReplyDeleteInteresting post, thanks.
ReplyDeletei agree with what you think.. a guy who sleep with so many people can never be trusted as a life partner, he would never satisfy with one partner.. he will keep on changing partners because i think that if you chosen Mr or miss wrong for first time, its mistake, second time can be underestimation but third time its a habit.. so stay away from such looser..
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