He Said He Has A Killer In His Family

It's really hard out here on a pimp or a pimpette :)

I have heard about some of my friends dating nightmares but I have one for the storybook.

On a date with a fella, yadda yadda. I ask for spelling of his last name so that I can Google him...Yep, was gonna Google him and look for him on Facebook. He responds in the creepiest tone, "What are you looking for? What do you want to know?"

You know when the cartoon character gets scared and its hair standS up...well, that was me.

I responded, "I was looking for you on Facebook and couldn't find you."

He responded, "I'm not on Facebook."

All the while, I'm feeling a bit uncomfy but I maintain my composure. Yea, that's right I'm cool. I'm cool.

Well, he reveals to me A LOT, yes, A LOT about his family's history. His mom was a drug addict. The man he thought was his father wasn't his father.

While he's talking, I'm trying not to look like I want to get up out of my seat and run for the door. I'm also wondering if my light complexion has turned ghost white.

He then hits me with the -- my great grandfather killed my great grandmother and her father.

Oh dayuuum!

At that point, I couldn't hide the way I was feeling. I was freaked out. I was scared. I wanted this little afternoon date to be over.

Shoot, I come from a good family. We have a few dysfunctionalities but for the most part, it's all good. Two-parent household. All children finished high school. Two finished college. No teen pregnancies. No sexual abuse craziness. No jail birds...a drunk or two tho LOLOLOLO

But fo real fo real, my family is pretty good so to have all that dumped on me was just overwhelming.

It was much tooo much toooo much for me to handle.

Soooooo, when do you reveal some of the the not so positive or negative things about you or your family to a suitor? Early on and give them a chance to flee early or later on when more of a relationship has been formed? Tell me.