Money, Not Cheating No. 1 Reason For Divorce

Today, this very day 10 years ago, I got married but errrr uhhh I am divorced.

I will never forget 617. Heck, sometimes I even play it in the lottery and as I hand the cashier the money I am thinking mama need a new pair of shoes and then I pop my fingers like a real gambler LOLOLOL

Any who.

This is the second anniversary, and it's not really an anniversary, maybe a commemoration. I dunno. But it is the second of whatever it is that I have had since my divorce.

And I just wanna say whoever said time heals all wounds ain't never lied. :) He or she deserves a statue in front of all divorce courts in the country.

Interestingly, people still want to know why I got a divorce and ummmmm nonna ya! LOLOLOL No, really it is no one's business.

Quite frankly, I get a bit funky, nasty, irritated when people who really don't know me think that they can ask me my business.

One old dude had the nerves to tell me recently if it was over another woman you should have forgiven him. I looked at him like he had two heads. First, I am a trained journalist so I recognize that essentially that is a question and second, why, oh why do you think I want to tell you anything about my marriage or my divorce!!!! UGGGG

Any who.

I don't understand why people assume that most marriages break up over infidelity. There are several reasons people cannot make it. Heck, one of my other divorcee friends told me he thinks that relationships are only meant for a season, but I'm going to blog about that another day.

But the No. 1 reason people get divorced is MONEY, NOT CHEATING!

The other top reasons for divorce:

Infidelity.

Poor communication

Change in priorities. This can be caused by having kids or due to one's job, big things.

Lack of commitment to the marriage.

Sexual problems.

Addictions

Failed expectations of your spouse (believing one is a super hero or that he/she can fix or be everything to or for you)

Physical, emotional or sexual abuse.

Dere it is!