I had a very interesting conversation with someone recently about the whole phenomenon of wearing a wedding ring.
It appears that men, at least this is what I have been told, are more attractive to women once they begin wearing a wedding ring.
This made my blood boil a little but I guess hoes, are hoes are hoes...lolol Of course, I am talking about the tool used for gardening.
Any who.
During the conversation, I learned that men do pay attention to the size of the ring and assesses the man. Sorta like women do. You know when a girl first gets engage and everyone says, "He did good girl!" Ususally this means the ring is pretty nice.
When men look at a woman's ring, men who are possibly interested may say, "Nah, I cannot afford that chickypoo."
But the one thing that I found most interesting was how men will assume that a woman is married if she wears a ring that looks like a wedding ring on the left hand, even if it is the middle finger.
This also goes for when a woman wears that same style of ring on the right hand.
Wowsa Yowsa. I was told that if a man gives a woman a quick look and ladies, you know there is stiff competition, lololol -- a ring can cause a lot of confusion.
After the conversation, I pondered a bit. I think a lot of women wear rings to confuse men, but I'm wondering could women be wearing a ring and not understand how it could affect her dating life?
Do you think men take enough time to figure out if the ring is on the ring finger? Do you think women are more attracted to men who wear wedding rings?
If a guy sees a simple or cheap ring, he should take that as being with a woman who loves her man and just wants to be with her.
ReplyDeleteIf she's got a big, expensive ring, he SHOULD consider it competition, because that woman is more likely to be on the lookout for someone who can give her more, different, better. She's more likely to be available.
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