Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Cuddle Buddies Don't Want Sex

Nothing ceases to amaze me, but I was shocked just for just a second when I read a story about a Cuddle Buddy.

Heck, I was thinking a Cuddle Buddy would be someone you like cuddling with and having diggity with. Ummm, sorta like a boo during the winter, but boy oh boy was I wrong.

A Cuddle Buddy is a term that women use to describe someone that they deal with during the winter months when they can’t find Mr. Right.

He’s not a boyfriend. He’s not a one-night stand and he’s not a friend with benefits.

Whatda? Whatda? Whatda?

I really need to get out more.

The Cuddle Buddy will be interested in eating Chinese takeout with a woman, watching TV and basically hanging out with her during the winter months.

He will also not make a woman’s life complicated with unnecessary drama and ultimatums. And get this, he will NOT fall in love either.

But if a woman wants a Cuddle Buddy, she can’t come on to him in an overtly sexual manner. This will scare him off because he is not interested in sex.

It’s suggested that a woman looking for a Cuddle Buddy exhibit cuteness instead of sexiness.

Cuddle Buddies are also known to hang out at cafes and libraries. He will not be at a house party or in a bar.

OK, the idea of a Cuddle Buddy is something totally new to me. I thought the whole reason folks wanted to hook up or have somebody in the winter was for diggity, but I guess I’m wrong.

But I’m also very perplexed, confused and befuddled by the idea of two people spending sooooo much time together and never wanting to do The Do.

Are there really men out there who will spend quality time with a woman and never want sex?

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